Between porn, internet stories of crazy sexcapades, and Fifty Shades of Grey, it's easy to feel like something's wrong with you when you can't orgasm or don't orgasm as much as you'd like. We get into the science of anorgasmia, some common causes, and what can help.

Not having an orgasm can be a very frustrating and lonely experience. If you’ve mentioned your experience to friends, you may have had someone look aghast and say “How can you NOT have had an orgasm?”. Well, I’m here to tell you this: your friend is wrong (sorry not sorry friend). And you’re not alone.