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Orgasmic Birthing: What Is It? How Can I Have a Birthgasm?

Orgasmic Birthing: What Is It? How Can I Have a Birthgasm?
It’s hard to imagine labor and delivery as anything other than a woman screaming in pain, enduring the painful process that is birth. But those who have had an orgasmic birth — otherwise referred to as a “birthgasm” — will tell you that sometimes, the excruciating pain experienced during childbirth can transition into something that is best described as ecstatic pleasure. Learn more about orgasmic birthing and how you might be able to have one too.

How to Choose The Right Sex Club For You: First-timers, Couples, Singles

How to Choose The Right Sex Club For You: First-timers, Couples, Singles

Sex, and what is sexy, lies on a massive spectrum that is highly personalized to each individual person. So you can bet that when it comes to choosing the right sex club, you're going to want to find a group that aligns with what you think is sexy. So if you’re wondering where to begin when delving into the wide world of sex clubs, here are a few places to start.

Five Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship

Five Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship

If romance novels and chick-flicks are to be believed, the long-distance relationship is to be dreaded, and time apart shunned as an enemy of love.

But in reality, the experts—and those who’ve been there— say long-distance relationships can actually lead to a stronger bond. Even, perhaps, a better sex life.

Here are the 5 best tips to keep your sex life alive in a long distance relationship.

Three Important Things You Need to Know Before Visiting Your First Sex Club

Three Important Things You Need to Know Before Visiting Your First Sex Club

Sex clubs may seem taboo or risque, but as Grace learned, sex clubs are about finding what is erotic for you, as the individual, and creating a safe space to explore it. Still, it’s natural to feel nervous about attending. If you want to push the boundaries of your comfort zone, but are not sure what to expect, here are three important things to know before visiting your first sex club or sex party.

The Three Best Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive After Kids

The Three Best Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive After Kids

Being a parent brings many joys into your life. But if the “sexless relationship after kids” trope is to be believed, a healthy sex life is not one of them.

As a mom to a small child, I know all too well how the demands of parenting can be exhausting, leaving little time or desire for sex. Fortunately, there’s good news for both new and seasoned parents alike: our sex lives don’t have to go the way of the dodo bird. Here's the 3 best secrets to keeping your sex life alive as parents.

7 Best Lesbian Sex Positions to Elevate Your Sex Life

7 Best Lesbian Sex Positions to Elevate Your Sex Life

Lesbians have great sex, and we have the data to prove it. Research published in the journal Archives of Sexual Nature found that while straight people have sex more often, lesbians report having far more orgasms — 86 percent of the time —  compared to their heterosexual counterparts, who orgasm only 65 percent of the time.  

But how do we have this earth-shattering, orgasm-giving sex? It’s not just about oral sex— though there’s plenty of that, too. To avoid the dreaded “lesbian bed death” thought to come with long-term relationships, lesbians have to get more creative with our sex positions to keep things exciting.

Whether you’ve been together for 2 months or 20 years, here are some of the best lesbian sex positions you can incorporate into your sex life to keep the passion flowing.

6 best sex and orgasm trackers for iOS and Android

6 best sex and orgasm trackers for iOS and Android

According to a Havas study on Love in the Digital Age, “more than 4 in 10 [people] would be willing to monitor their sexual activities and performance for improvement.” It harkens back to that old saying" “never measured, never improved.” Not only can you get better at things or improve your life through measurement and data, but you can also apply the same principles to improving your sex life.

While there are more period and fertility trackers than I can count on both of my hands, sex and orgasm tracking is a highly sought after, yet nascent space. But search I did, and I found a variety of different trackers out there. Each of these are great for different purposes, whether you’re tracking sex in terms of fertility, health, or just to remember to kick back and have fun.

From tracking sex, masturbation, orgasms, and more, here are some of the best sex and orgasm trackers on the market.

Want to Try Pegging? A Beginner's Complete Guide for You and Your Partner

Want to Try Pegging? A Beginner's Complete Guide for You and Your Partner

TJ, a 35-year-old, confidently heterosexual man, felt secure in his two-year relationship with his girlfriend. But he was keeping a secret: he’d begun to experiment with anal sex, and he wanted his partner to join him.

“I had trouble asking for it at first, and still do,” said TJ, who asked to remain anonymous. “I’m trying to let go and enjoy being taken. It’s not something I’d want my friends to know, but I’m starting to care less these days.”

Fake Orgasms: Why and What to Do About it

Fake Orgasms: Why and What to Do About it

It sounds like a philosophical question — "What's the difference between a real and a fake orgasm?"

While orgasms might be more obvious if you have a penis (though even then, people can get creative if they want or need to fake it), there is a lot of confusion over what constitutes a “real”, so-called "female orgasm” and why someone would fake one.

We go more in-depth on what a real orgasm is and feels like in another article (which you can read here). But for this guide, we’ll talk about what a fake orgasm can be, why people do it, if it’s wrong, and what to do if your partner (or you) are faking it and want to change that.