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Crave Vesper makes me feel fancy while having orgasms

Vesper and Lioness

When experimenting with Lioness, I’ve sometimes given the suggestion of trying different sensations with different external stimulators, using the Lioness more a measurement tool by keeping the vibration off using the customizable vibration settings.

This is an example of what I mean — here, I’ll use the Vesper while using the Lioness’s biofeedback technology to show arousal and orgasm. This is my second in a series, the first being the Zumio.

An ode to my favorite bullet vibrator

Crave’s necklace vibrator has become one of my favorite go-to toys, alongside my own Lioness Vibrator. It’s a pretty tough position to beat, IMO. I’ve tried a lot of different sex toys over time (dare I say I’m in the 100 club?), and Vesper is one of my main go-tos for both solo and partner play.

But... it didn’t start that way (dun dun dun!). 🙊

Getting passionate

The first time

I have to admit, when I first started playing with the Vesper, I wasn’t a fan. The vibration felt too light for me. I had used a wide range of vibrators from “heavy hitters” like the Magic Wand (and it’s more affordable, but equally "magical" counterpart the Wahl), along with other rabbit, g-spot, and external vibrators that had a lot less power but felt more substantial.

I had also remembered one of my experiences way back when I bought a different “pretty, design-forward” external vibrator, though that one was so weak that no matter what I tried, it felt like a dying fruit fly on my clit (yes, it was bad). The Vesper didn’t feel like that (thankfully), but I was worried that it similarly wouldn't work out.

nightstand

Don’t judge a vibrator based on a one night stand

But what intrigued me about the Vesper was that it’s an extremely slim, but strong for its size, bullet vibrator. Seriously, it’s a feat to design something that small that also packs a decent punch. You can put it in places and stimulate the vulva and clitoris in ways that are harder to do with a larger bullet vibrator or massager wand. Also, it’s made of stainless steel and vibrates. I love metal and things that vibrate, so I was intrigued that they were able to make something from metal that also vibrates (a rarity in the sex toy space).

Crave Vesper

After a few times fumbling with it a bit and trying to find what felt good, I figured out ways and places that felt really good for me. I realized I’m less the pinpoint vibration type of person—I liked laying the vibrator alongside my labia for more surface area as well as touching the clitoris. It felt really, really nice, especially since most products on the market don’t have that long-but-slim shape that can nestle with the labia like that.

Crave vesper Lioness orgasm charts

Above is a comparison of two different orgasms, one using Vesper and one using Lioness. They share quite a few similarities because they both do clitoral stimulation via vibration, and also probably because I'm quite accustomed to both toys now.

One thing to note is that what I'd call "aftershocks" (what happens after the initial rhythmic motion of the orgasm) feel different. Lioness has a pretty consistent rhythm coming down from orgasm, while Vesper is more inconsistent — it tampers down a lot, spikes up again a bit, tampers back down.

I wouldn't say one is better than the other — it's more like comparing different wines where they're both different experiences and flavor profiles. Dare I say, they have slightly different orgasm profiles? Too much? Okay. Moving on. 😉

You'll see some of variation like this after a few sessions with any toy, whether it's because of stress, medications, alcohol or cannabis consumption, or something else. Take this example below, this time comparing the previous Vesper session with one while using cannabis (a microdose of a hybrid edible...these mints from Breez in case you were curious).

Vesper with and without cannabis

And to add some qualitative data, so to speak, the experience with the edible was 👌👌👌. So there's a lot of ways to change up your experience with toys, techniques, fantasies, or something else! Be your own artist, or scientist, or whatever your jam is. Try new things, see what happens, explore, and have fun!

Design matters

Finally, this sounds kind of silly, but I feel fancy when I’m using this thing. I suppose using something that can also double as jewelry vs. a medieval mace (even if they’re solid vibrators in their own right) helps with feeling satisfied. Maybe it’s that I feel like I look good while getting off, so I get off better despite the vibrator not being as strong… or something.

And now for the kicker

Finally, this thing is pretty easy to use while having sex. You do have to hold it, and it is tiny so it may not be so great for people with arthritic hands, but if you’re able and want to add a little zest to your next sex session, it’s great! On the plus side, by holding it you have a lot of control over the stimulation and variety of stimulation (pinpoint vs. cylindrical...or whatever you might call what I described before).

Anyhow, once I figured out my groove with the Vesper after fumbling a few times, plus all the other factors, first it became hey, I can actually get off with this thing. And now, wow, I love this!

I like it!

That being said, I personally don't care for it as a necklace… as said, everyone’s different when it comes to sex. Also when it comes to fashion. 😛But for people who do like that, it can be fun, naughty, and empowering to be able to wear your pleasure around your neck.

So while you won’t find me adding my vibrator to my wardrobe, I do appreciate the idea (and great marketing) of figuring out a way to wear your sex toy in the public, yet (mostly) being able to do it without most folks noticing.

Overall, I think the Vesper is a great product and play and experiment with. Whether it becomes one of your new sex toys, a necklace, or both, it's a fun addition to many people's nightstands!

You can buy the Crave Vesper here.

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