Masturbation is one of the greatest things about being a human. For most people it requires nothing more than your body, a little imagination, and a little alone time.
But what if I told you masturbation can be a partnered/group experience calledmutual masturbation? If you haven’t tried touching yourself while someone else touches themselves, here are three ways you can give mutual masturbation a try today:
1. Try mutual masturbation while you’re long distance (or medium or short)
If you and your lover(s) are separated by space and time, intimacy is still possible (and so is simultaneously cumming together).
Instead of pleasuring yourselves at different times, give mutual masturbation a try. Here are a few ways to try long distance mutual masturbation:
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Plan a Facetime date where you both masturbate on camera together
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Schedule a masturbation session at the same time, then connect on a call afterward to talk about how hot it was to think of your partner touching themselves miles away
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Give good old fashioned phone sex a try while your hands wander and theirs do the same
By masturbating at the same time as your partner, you can feel connected and deepen intimacy even when you’re nowhere near each other.
2. Try mutual masturbation in the same room
If distance isn’t an issue and you’re just looking for something new in the bedroom, masturbating in the same space can be hot AF and break the monotony of routine sex.
Instead of hitting the sack together and trying new positions, make each partner responsible for their own pleasure and experiment with ways to make it more playful. Whether you try to orgasm together, see who orgasms first, or hold off an O until you can’t keep your hands off each other, mutual masturbation is sure to spice things up.
3. Try mutual masturbation with remote control toys
Using a remote control toy like the Lioness Smart Vibrator can really kick mutual masturbation up a notch — and yes, it still counts as mutual masturbation so long as both partners are masturbating!
If you’re in the same room, remote controlled toys let you see the effect one partner’s control has on the other partner’s pleasure. If you’re worlds apart, these toys are great for inciting fantasy, kicking phone sex up a notch, or feeling physically close when you can’t be.
Sexperiment with mutual masturbation to find what works
Whether you’re looking for a way to make soloplay more exciting, or just interested in trying something new with your partner(s), mutual masturbation is always worth a try.
How worth it is it? Well, Lioness users are going to have an answer at the end of February! Join us for our 10th Sexperiment now.
