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Clever Cunnilingus Tips: How To Go Down On A Partner Who Has A Vulva

Clever Cunnilingus Tips: How To Go Down On A Partner Who Has A Vulva

Oral sex. Cunnilingus. Eating out. Giving head.

Whatever you call it, going down on a person with a vulva is an amazing experience for everyone involved—if you do it right. (So for the love of vulvas, please stop drawing the ABC’s with your tongue.)

Good oral sex can make you feel like you have superpowers, whether you’re the giving or receiving partner. Going down on a woman (or person with a vulva) requires finesse. It requires confidence. Most of all, it requires you to understand what you’re doing and why.

Instead of turning oral sex into a spelling bee or guessing game, take a look at our tips for both giving and recieving oral sex, as well as some quotes from both oral sex givers and receivers.

We’re not saying they’re totally fail-proof oral sex tips, but they are fun and sexy, with the potential to produce mind-blowing orgasms!

Tips & Tricks for Better Blow Jobs

Dos & don’ts for better blow jobs
In a recent article listing blow job dos and don’ts, I said there’s no step-by-step recipe to the perfect blow job and I stand by my words.

As a sex writer who spends a good portion of my time writing guides and advice pieces for better sex, I’m often conflicted because there’s never just one good way to do anything.

There are ways. Plural.

Blow jobs are no different; they can be quick and dirty, a surprise, warm-up, or foreplay. But, if you want to take it up a notch and give the crème de la crème of blow jobs—no pun intended—I recommend the following tips: