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How to Manifest Your Dreams Through Masturbation

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By Katiee McKinstry

Sexual energy is one of the most powerful things we as humans have. So, how can we harness that energy and utilize it in other aspects of our lives too?

Manifestation has been a buzzword over the last year as everyone wants to hold onto something hopeful. Who wouldn’t you want to use a technique to achieve your dreams? Especially in 2021.

Simply put, manifesting something is an event or action that embodies an idea or theory. When you work to manifest your reality, you are taking your ideas and theories and using your energy to help create them.

If sexual energy is the most powerful energy, we should be able to use it to help us in our manifestation quests.

So, how do you use sexual energy to manifest?

Think about what happens when you orgasm. We all experience some of the same elements of orgasm, right? Our muscles contract in a rhythmic pattern and our breath shortens. Your energy when you’re about to orgasm is being tightened, and when you finally do climax, all of that energy is completely released. Thus, when you orgasm, you are reaching a higher state of enlightenment. Hence why many orgasms lead you to have an out-of-body experience, even if it’s very brief.

As the energy is released during climax, harness it. Take that energy and use it to actively manifest your aspirations and goals.

In order to properly manifest the things we want in life, we have to allow them in. When we are in a state of full relaxation, we step out of our own way and are open to receiving positive energy and change. If you want to utilize this release of energy to help you actively manifest, you first have to put in the work.

The Work: How to Manifest

First things first, make sure you’re ready to masturbate; whatever that looks like for you. We want you to feel comfortable and safe! Obviously, if you prefer to masturbate with a vibrator we recommend the Lioness Vibrator. 😉
Once you are in the mood and ready for masturbation you’ll be ready to set the stage for your manifestation journey.

Here are some key tips to help you learn how to manifest:

Write down your goals.

Before you start to masturbate, make sure you have a plan. What are you trying to manifest? Take some time to think about this and write it down on a piece of paper. This brings your intentions from the mental realm to the physical, helping to actively charge them with energy.

Prepare your energy.

Speaking of energy, it’s time to get to business! If you’re able to, consider using edging to your advantage; hold off your climax for as long as you can, all while visualizing your intentions/manifestations. Not only will you have a potentially better orgasm through edging, but it will help to build up that energy inside of you. You’ll feel it grow within you as you finally reach that release.

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Let that sh*t go.

Release, and let go. If you’re able to climax and it’s something that naturally comes to you, this is the opportunity for you to release any built up tension and energy. If climaxing isn’t easy for you, don’t fret. Let yourself relax, and get into the mindfulness practice of it all; really take a moment to appreciate and care for yourself and your body.

You did it! Visualize your perfect life, what you want it to look like, what you want to manifest. You’ve put in the work now and you’re letting the universe know that you’ve released it out. You have put your intentions out there and you’re ready to receive everything you want and more. Close your eyes and take a moment to yourself.

Trust in divine timing.

The universe has your back. Trust the idea that you’ve manifested what you want, and now you’re ready to receive. You’ve got to put in the work to achieve your dreams, but now the universe knows exactly who you are, what you want, and how to get it to you. Good job!

Don’t know what to manifest?

Now that you know how to manifest, you may be stuck on what exactly you want to manifest. That’s okay! Take some time as you’re writing down your intentions to really think about what you want your life to look like. Maybe you want a new partner to sweep you off your feet, maybe you’re looking for some more money to make its way into your wallet. What are your career aspirations? What does your dream day look like? Write that down.

If you can dream it, you can have it. The work starts with you and letting go of the idea that you can’t have whatever you want in life.

Sex is energy. When you masturbate, you are creating an abundance of sexual energy throughout your entire body; it’s tightening within you and beginning to burn your inner fire. Once you orgasm, you release that energy you’ve so beautifully harnessed into the world.

So, while you’re at it, why not manifest your biggest dreams? Remember that the universe and you yourself have your back. You can create any reality you want and it all starts with masturbating. Who would've thought?

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